The current crisis is adding stress to relationships. Divorce inquiries have increased and so have domestic violence calls in the United States. If you can't figure out your marriage, divorce is going to cost you at least $15,000 per person.

We know much of marriage counseling fails. Often the counselor seems to choose sides, creating a win/lose environment, which damages the relationship further. Our coaching is on God's and the marriage's side - each person in the marriage is encouraged to try something different, without blame, while the coach stays focused on being a neutral party and facilitating Wins for both spouses, the marriage, and God. We view each person in the marriage with respect as precious to God - equally. 

We know marriage counseling is painful. In our opinion, too much time is spent rehashing unsolvable problems from the past. Coaching focuses on the forward movement of the marriage, creating the life you want together, learning new ways of interacting by trying new skills in the moments they are needed. These methods are proven to have a positive impact in your daily lives. 

We know getting help is expensive. The average costs of counseling in the United States runs between $60-125/hour. That is a lot to pay when you aren't sure of the results. Most couples meet weekly with their counselor spending their time and money getting the counselor up to speed with the history of their relationship. Coaching is different. Your first call as a couple is FREE - and we begin forward moving work in the first paid session.

Maybe you have done The Respect Dare (Nelson, 2012) book already, but unlike many of the men whose wives “do the dares” – your husband didn’t respond. OR he did, by taking you for granted instead of responding with greater love.

Or maybe you are afraid to learn about respect and submission because you are concerned that your already controlling or verbally aggressive or unloving husband will respond by taking advantage of you or that his verbal dismissals, discounting, and disrespect of you and/or your kids will get worse.

Maybe you think those Bible verses don’t apply to you…maybe you think you need to build up your own self-esteem before you try them, but you’ve felt so discouraged for so long that you don’t know what to do.

We can help.

We have been at this since 2005. We have studied the research and seen the outcomes.

We have found a way to help you not only save your marriage if it is possible to do so, but regardless of what happens, help you develop the skills, esteem, and relationship with God to be confident in His plan for you AND be seen as a person of worth by yourself and others around you.

In the eCourse, we’ll be teaching you how to set boundaries that build relationships. If you want more from your marriage and want to stop feeling like a doormat, please join us in the Strength & Dignity eCourse. If you do this eCourse alongside The Respect Dare, (it's optional within the class as to when you do the book), you’ll also improve your marriage in a dramatic way. Do more than protect yourself – birth JOY into your marriage by fully honoring and obeying God.

No matter how long you have been married, or what stage of life you are in, you will face difficulties. How you choose to navigate those challenges will impact your marriage and family either positively or negatively. We know what works and can help you and your spouse develop the habits needed to make lasting positive change a reality for your marriage. 

Since 2006 we haven't been just teaching people how to communicate to create deeper connections; we have walked with them. Thousands of people have deepened their relationships with God and transformed their personal relationships. How did they do it? The answer is simple - they practiced with expert guidance. They've learned new methods of interacting and praying and have changed their outcomes.

Nina is a certified Relationship Coach and Christian Marriage Coach. She has been coaching and teaching communicators since 1991, and spent 15 years with Dale Carnegie Training, the "How to Win Friends and Influence People" organization. She has a masters degree in communication and has coached individuals, couples, pastors, and leaders around America. She has been a follower of Christ since 1990. Start your change today! Choose your path - couples coaching or the eCourse for wives, and begin creating the marriage you want today!